So I've never really had many friends and certainly not much interest from guys. I usually make friends with guys really easily and I found that when I started uni, a lot of my friends were of the male species. The trouble is, most of them have made things awkward with me by flirting with me, or asking me out.
The first time it happened I didn't think anything of it as guys don't like me, but it's happened like four times, where a guy who I thought I was friends with has asked me out or tried it on with me and when I rejected their advances, have ended up ignoring me or the friendship ends.
I know of all this 'friendzone' crap but I don't buy into it. These guys start out as my friends and we get on really well, but this happening is just ruining the few friendships I've made and makes me feel like they're only after sex.
I'm not by any means desirable which is why I find them confusing. It's upsetting as I can't actually find a boyfriend either and just feel completely confused and upset with the whole situation. any advice??