Okay so one of my closest friends is a lesbian. She has always referred to me as straight and assumed that I am. It's true I haven't really been involved with many women however I am getting to the point now in my mid 20s where I want to experience more with women.
My best friend has had many bad experiences dating bi women, mainly bi girls leaving her for men once they have finished experimenting. I've had to comfort her over many a heartbreak for this reason.
Another problem is my best friend finds me very attractive and jokes that I'm the perfect woman and wishes that I was a lesbian too... The problem is whilst obviously I love her personality I have zero physical attraction to her and this hasn't changed over the years I've known her. She's very overweight and masculine which is the complete opposite of what I'm attracted to in a woman. I'm scared if I come out as bi she will be mad that I don't like her, if that makes any sense. I know a bi girl who is really hot and super nice and I want to get with her soon but again I'm scared my lesbian friend will get jealous.
I don't want to be in the closet any more. I think she will be mad that I didn't tell her sooner, but also mad that I'm bi. What should I do??
How can I go about this to minimize damage to my friend?
I want to come out as bi (F) but I fear my best friend (a lesbian) will be FURIOUS!
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