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    So i fell in love with a girl on holiday (i was 17 she was 16) and we just clicked. However she lives in bilbao,spain and i live in london. We decided to try an ldr after the holiday and see where it'll take us. It was the most amazing time ever and we both loved every second of it. However suddenly, and i guess rightly, she ended it with me cuz she didnt think our relationship was going anywhere in the future, so we decided to be close friends. What really hurt me was she hadnt seen me since the holiday we fell in love 8 months ago, and she was coming to london on holiday the week later. She felt uncomfortable meeting me cuz of what we had just been through. She said she felt bad about it and she knows i was devastated about it. While she was in london, she ignored me for her entire holiday so as not to hurt me.... But i felt really awful about it. Now she's back in spain...... Should i start talking to her in a friendly way again? She has occupied all my thoughts and feelings for the past 8 months or so, and im not sure if its worth to be friends with someone who hurts me really badly and doesnt even wanna see me when she is right near me. Can i pleaaaaaaasssseeeeeee have some advice? Thanks so much!!

    I thought you needed help with a light dependent resistor, not relationship problems...

    I'm out of my depth here
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    seriouslyyyy i have no idea what to do
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