My friend and I have always liked each but have been too shy to do anything about it. I am on eHarmony and very strangely we got matched as compatible. This was not possible to fix this as you answer a questionnaire and eHarmony sends you your matches.
My friend looked at my profile, I then looked at his profile and sent him an automated 'can't stop smiling' and I sent a message saying "Hi Jake, it looks like eHarmony thinks we are a match... ". He sent an automated response straight away saying "Jake wants to get to know you". I waited for him to reply to my message and all week there was nothing.
He was meant to come out with mutual friends at the end of the week so I thought he might wait till then to chat. He didn't come and went out with other friends. I closed the match down the next day as I thought he can't be interested.
Looking back now I don't know if I acted hastily. Was I meant to write back? I don't know if he didn't come as he may have thought I snubbed him by not writing anything back. One friend said he was rude and should have replied and other said maybe he did not know what to say.
I don't know why I keep beating myself up over this. I really liked him and felt like he wasn't interested but a friend said he was interested as he sent the automated response saying he wanted to get to know me.
Closed eHarmony match
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