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I feel like fate has it in for me big time

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    I don't know what to think anymore. Everyone expects me to pull good grades in my a levels, look after my sister, make commitments at cadets and be happy all while I'm trying to grieve for my mum. I'm not capable of doing well, its all too much and I just feel like whoever controls this **** hates me. I lack hope. How do I get it back?

    I can't start to imagine what you're going through. A levels are hard enough without everything else you're having to deal with, would it be possible to stop the cadets for a while? That could give you a bit of time to focus on your studies.
    Don't feel hopeless remember that exams are a lot of work for a short space of time, but there is light at the end and fairly soon you'll be done with them. Also don't let yourself get too stressed about them, even though they seem really important there are always options if for some reason they don't go well.

    Stay strong and hang in there

    I think so too....
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