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who has it harder when losing their virginity, girls or guys?

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    as the title says, who has it harder the first time they have sex? some might say girls because it can hurt, some might say guys because they might have trouble getting it up. what do you think?

    This isn't going to end well...

    Girls and the potential pain is definitely worse than 'ughh I couldn't get it up'

    Failing to get aroused is considered as bad as physical discomfort? One question I have never considered until now. ive done a lot of considering...

    There isn't an answer to this one, because it depends so much on your partner, your relationship and the circumstances in which it happens. Both have the potential to go badly wrong: pressure - external or internal - can be a big problem.

    I can say that having been the 'penetrating' one with a number of people for their first time, and being the 'enclosing' one too.
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