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    This has kind of been going on for a while and sounds really stupid but please guys advice is needed!

    So last year i had kind of been talking to this guy but then i went back to uni and nothing ever happened but one drunken night out when i was home we kissed and both said that we liked each other etc. I was really embarrassed and we never spoke again after that really - i tried the following day but he shut me down. Then a few months later he started messaging me out of the blue and in the first conversation asked if i wanted to meet up? so i said i didnt think it was a good idea- i was still embarrassed from before. So we havent spoken for a while but recently we have started talking again and get on really well, i like this guy - but i feel like having said no to meeting up with him will have blown my chances of ever having anything more?

    What are your opinions?

    You haven't blown your chance don't worry. Just be open and honest with him, Tell him exactly how you feel and explain how you felt before ... That is the important thing to just be clear (Espesh with men!) Just ask if he is around casually and see how it goes, no harm in trying and you've nothing to loose, just be honest about everything
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