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Do I tell her about my worries?

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    My girlfriend went out clubbing a few days ago, I wasnt hugely comfortable with it but I kept my mouth shut because I dont want to sound controlling or overprotective.

    She went out and for that whole night all I did was worry, the thought of other guys trying it on or if she tried it on with them. I trust her, I really do but I've never been in this position before so I was bound to worry.

    Do I confront her about my worries? Or should it be best just to keep my mouth shut and have trust in her.

    Side note, we both tell each other any worries we both have, its just that this (to me) is a bit different.

    How old are you?...

    Im guessing young. when you're in your mid 20s this wont be a big deal (after youve both been clubbing a lot). You cant always go with eachother.. and thats a good thing, to see your own friends. When you're in a committed relaionship, you dont go out for male attention. You go out to have a good time with your friends..and to come back to your own partner at 3am. I wouldnt worry.
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