Hey there! Sign in to join this conversationNew here? Join for free

Housemates Spying On Me?

Announcements Posted on
Four hours left to win £100 of Amazon vouchers!! Don't miss out! Take our short survey to enter 24-10-2016
    • Thread Starter

    Hey everyone, I'm basically writing to ask how you think I should approach the subject of my housemates (3 girls and a boy) - yesterday one of them told me that on two occasions when I have had my boyfriend over the 3 girls have huddled outside my bedroom door listening to us talking at night (I told the housemate I wasn't comfortable with this and she laughed it off and said it didn't matter because we were talking too quietly to hear what was being said), however I'm feeling quite uncomfortable about this and don't really know how to bring it up without causing conflict as I am quite close with all three of them. Any advice?

    You have tobe sure its going on first, perhaps she was just teasing. If you are reasonably sure its going on then have a house meeting or just pick a moment or just start sounding thme out. Alternatively put a sign on your door. the danger is if you jump too soon then it could just encourage them. Alternatively just leave the door open or block it off completely.

    Obviously they didn't think it was weird or anything... Just tell them gently that you feel a bit uncomfortable.
Write a reply…


Submit reply


Thanks for posting! You just need to create an account in order to submit the post
  1. this can't be left blank
    that username has been taken, please choose another Forgotten your password?
  2. this can't be left blank
    this email is already registered. Forgotten your password?
  3. this can't be left blank

    6 characters or longer with both numbers and letters is safer

  4. this can't be left empty
    your full birthday is required
  1. Oops, you need to agree to our Ts&Cs to register
  2. Slide to join now Processing…

Updated: April 17, 2016
TSR Support Team

We have a brilliant team of more than 60 Support Team members looking after discussions on The Student Room, helping to make it a fun, safe and useful place to hang out.

What do you wear to bed?
Useful resources
Bizarre things students have spent their loans onThings you should budget for at uni

Sponsored features:

Making money from your own website

Need some cash?

How to make money running your own website.

Bianca Miller, runner-up on The Apprentice

Handle your digital footprint

What would an employer find out about you on Google? Find out how to take control.

Groups associated with this forum:

View associated groups

The Student Room, Get Revising and Marked by Teachers are trading names of The Student Room Group Ltd.

Register Number: 04666380 (England and Wales), VAT No. 806 8067 22 Registered Office: International House, Queens Road, Brighton, BN1 3XE

Reputation gems: You get these gems as you gain rep from other members for making good contributions and giving helpful advice.