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Am I being not irresponsible to myself if I'm not thinking about the future of us?

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    I am now study in London, and he is working there as a local.

    I never think about marry him or not and I think he doesn't want to marry me anyway. But my friends and my family keeps asking me about it, even my flatmate who is one year younger than me started to thinking about getting married. It really freaks me out...

    I am afraid if I ask him about this will make him so stressed and wants to breakup with me..

    I don't know.. What shall I do? Wait until he talks about it? Or just keep going to see what happens or maybe end this relationship???

    Everyone gets caught up in the early parts of relationship. Everyone wants to know when you're getting married but it's really none of their business.

    It's always good to talk about the future but it doesn't have to be so focussed on other people's expectations. Particularly if you've not been together that long and this only bothers you because others have stuck their nose in
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