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    I was loading the dishwasher and had my back slightly exposed. My brother washes his hands and goes to reach the hand towel which was near me. For some reason he starts shaking his wet hands on my back and laughing. I felt my back and it wasn't just a few drops.

    I feel like he emotionally abuses me as he thinks he can do this for no reason to me. I didn't do anything to upset him. I have always been good to him. I paid off a £2000 credit card debt he gained in my name as he wasn't able to pay the debt back. I cancelled the card after as I had lost my savings doing this for him. I buy all of his food shopping on a weekly basis which is not cheap as he has organic foods. I do a lot for him and at 27 I just don't understand why he doesn't value me.

    I know he's your brother but if he can't appreciate the things you do for him then just stop...he needs to grow up and learn from his mistakes on his own. It sounds like he thinks because you do everything for him he can take advantage because he knows you'll always be there.
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