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Why bother with a post grad? Are they even worth it? Have your say! 26-10-2016
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    I am 21 and all I do is stay in my messy bedroom, which I am to lazy to tidy. I was on a 12 week college course and met some people, now that the course is over I don't see any of them anymore, although there on my Facebook.

    How do I break this?

    go out more, take up a hobby, play a sport

    Why does it matter, never bothered me. I've never had much of a social life but then again im a simple person and would happily live under the covers the rest of my life with my laptop.

    But yeah i get your drift, after awhile you gonna need social interaction see...
    As you get older it is harder to sustain relationships, most people at a certain age i.e. 18+ have friends they have known for most of their lives through school, childhood etc.

    Doesn't mean you can't make a best friend in later life, just have to try harder. Get more confidence. Ask some of your facebook friends for a meet up for old times sake. If not go browse your area lol, talk to random people. Join a club.

    Start small, but think big. But don't be weird tho. Hope that helps.

    Once you have morals, class and manners things will swerve your way.

    Get off your backside and get a job. With a job you'll be able to meet new people and build friendships inside and out of the workplace.

    (Original post by Nfergs)
    Get off your backside and get a job. With a job you'll be able to meet new people and build friendships inside and out of the workplace.
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