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Have I got reason to be paranoid?

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    So I made a thread a few days back about how I was really paranoid about my relationship. After some alone time and just thinking about whats changed, I think its just how we are right now and how its different to how we were.

    My guess is that my partner has moved out of the whole 'puppy love' phase of a new relationship.. Much to my dismay
    In the first month and a few weeks into the next we would be talking every night, all night. But now (A week or so into our second month of the relationship) its not as.. intense? We both still talk every night, say how much we miss each other but its not the same as it was before, no long paragraphs about each others day or how our week has been, we still talk for a while but its not the same.

    Is this something I should be worried about or am I just overthinking things?

    If you lot need any more info just ask.

    Side note - This is my first EVER relationship, not just serious but any relationship at all, so this is all new to me and naturally I'm paranoid about it.

    It's your first relationship and you want everything to go smoothly which there is nothing wrong about. But I don't think there is anything to be paranoid about, I think it's down to nerves and you are just overthinking. Maybe you guys should meet up or something? Or (I don't know how well you know each other, if you were friends before or not) maybe you guys should try to ask each other about what the other person likes or best memory instead of the typical 'how was your day'.

    But i do think it is just you overthinking and you should not let that overcome you. You're in a relationship and you should enjoy it.
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