Year 12s: what will be the first way you research your future options? >>

People care about virginity

Why does TSR pretend that this isn't true? I get hassled over it long after I've stopped caring myself. For instance I was at a family frind's house one day then this happened:

*I'm with friend when woman and her 20 year old daughter comes in*

*Older woman gets drunk, starts quizzing me on whether I have a girlfriend*

*I say no*

*Quiz me on whether I've ever had a girlfriend*

*I say no*

*Then all three keep talking about it, even linking it to why I was refused alcohol earlier, apparently it shows that I'm not man enough to assert what I wanted to the shopkeeper*

*Get pissed off and leave, never go back*

I have many other stories of people (almost always women) acting strange and awkward around me when I reveal this. I could lie but why should I? I don't even care personally, lost my sex drive ages ago. I just wish people would stop judging me over it.

So it's official kids, if you'e a virgin over 25 you are definitely looked down on by society.

Reply 1

Davalla

Got a case of the early morning blues, eh?

Whats your question?

Original post by Mentally

Whats your question?

Literally in the first line

Original post by Davalla

Got a case of the early morning blues, eh?

I joined this site in a good mood to talk about my interests. But a whole day of being ignored has ended that so it's all depressive posts from now on.

Reply 4

username1726117

Sex is everywhere. It's in our media, people talk about it etc. For many young people, it becomes a central part of their lives wanting to experience this new and crazy thing, and for many they do just that.

You're fine, and don't let anyone convince you otherwise. If I hadn't met the right person, I would still be a virgin at 23. At the end of the day, it's your life and you live it the way you want. If people don't understand or respect your life decisions, that's their problem.

Quick Reply

Related discussions

Latest

Articles for you

What law employers actually want from graduates

How to be ready for an apprenticeship interview

Seven questions you must ask yourself before choosing your uni

GCSE students: five ways to start thinking about your future