I currently have a problem with a female bully at work who is really getting me down. I'm trying to leave and find something else. It makes me remember the past bullying i have had to put up with. The bullying i have gotten from women has been 10 times worse than the bullying i have gotten from men.
Yeah bullying is terrible from either sex, but reflecting on bulling from other men there's always some massive argument or fight and then after nobody cares anymore; either just attempting to get along again, not talking to each other or just making friends again, plus everything is much more direct. There's less likely to be a ton of gossip when it comes to a group of guys. Today i can usually deal with attempts by another guy to bully me. It's all usually direct.
With bullying from women there's more indirect **** going on, the gossip always flows (being a guy i just don't get gossip), the attempts to destroy everything you have (get you sacked, ruin your career, give you a bad name) and women never forget. A grudge can last for years and years and years. Often enough it has started by a female coworker being friendly towards you then absolutely bitch about you behind you back when you've gone.