How do I stop caring about a girl who doesn't care about me?

There's this girl I have liked for ages and a few months ago I thought things where finally going to happen between us, she became really flirty with me and always messaging me things like that. Then suddenly as if over night she stopped messaging me as much and stopped talking to me as much. Since then I have always been the one starting the conversation between us but I have always felt like I am either bothering or annoying her.

Due to how crappy this is making me feel I am starting to think maybe I should stop caring about her and stop messaging her but I don't know if I'm strong enough to do it and I don't know how to do it.

What should I do?

There's this girl I have liked for ages and a few months ago I thought things where finally going to happen between us, she became really flirty with me and always messaging me things like that. Then suddenly as if over night she stopped messaging me as much and stopped talking to me as much. Since then I have always been the one starting the conversation between us but I have always felt like I am either bothering or annoying her.

Due to how crappy this is making me feel I am starting to think maybe I should stop caring about her and stop messaging her but I don't know if I'm strong enough to do it and I don't know how to do it.

What should I do?

Start talking and flirting with other girls.

But what do you mean by that? What can I do?

You need to cut her out of your life, avoid her if you can and delete her off social media, delete her pictures or number and by not being in contact over time you will get over her as you will not think of her and she will fade away.

Believe me I have thought about doing this but I know that as soon as she notices I have deleted her from Facebook and Twitter she will want to know why.

She may or may not want to know why, but it doesn't matter anymore if you block her etc, you don't need to worry about it. You should probably do that, it's not fun to be in a one sided friendship and if you still like her in any way then it's best to do so, and not look back.

I do keep thinking about deleting her but I think it would be too hard to bring myself to do it.

Ask @believeteam22 2 he seems to have it under control...

There's this girl I have liked for ages and a few months ago I thought things where finally going to happen between us, she became really flirty with me and always messaging me things like that. Then suddenly as if over night she stopped messaging me as much and stopped talking to me as much. Since then I have always been the one starting the conversation between us but I have always felt like I am either bothering or annoying her.

Due to how crappy this is making me feel I am starting to think maybe I should stop caring about her and stop messaging her but I don't know if I'm strong enough to do it and I don't know how to do it.

What should I do?

I have the same problem with the girl I like, we used to message each other a lot and when we saw each at work we would continue having long conversation. Then all of a sudden she starting not replying the my messages and leaving some that I can't respond to and now today she just ignored my message. The thing is when I see her at work she act like she did nothing and we talk normally. I feel like no I should just not start any conversation and let her do it, it will be hard but it's the only way to know if she cares or not. If I was you I would do the same, ignore her and she if she pops up to you anytime soon.

sounds to me like she's playing games with you because unfortunately she knows you like her and she knows she can get attention when she wants it, from you. Don't be her door mat! And I will tell you this now, 1) If you stop showing interest and she leaves it at that, she's definitely not worth it. And 2) 10 times out of 10 if a girl cares she will start chasing the minute you seem like you've stopped caring or are moving on. Trust me on this. You are better than to let this girl walk all over you, remember that!