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Question about a girl I haven't seen in 10 years

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    Hey, I was 2 when I 'met' this girl and when I was about 6 or 7, I started to feel something for her. I don't think it was mutual. I quickly forgot about that and moved on. After all I was young, it wasn't love or anything, I just really liked her. Anyway, a few years later her best friend at the time told me she 'loved' me. I couldn't care less about girls, I was still too young so I pretended like I hadn't heard anything.

    We stayed friends for a while and one day she told me she was going to move out. There was no FB back then and I didn't have a phone so we lost sight. I tried once or twice to find her on FB now that it exists but I had no luck. I finally found her 2 weeks ago. I added her as a friend and we talked about the past and what we have become. Everything was fine but she suddenly stopped replying 5 days ago. She has been online everyday but she still hasn't read the message... She must have seen the end of the message and she probably didn't even bother reading it.

    It's been 10 years so she probably doesn't care at all about me but still. It's not that important but I'm disappointed because we were good friends and we both felt something for each other at some point. I think I deserve more than being ignored by her. Usually I wouldn't care, a girl doesn't want to talk to with well fine, there is nothing I can do. I'd have preferred that she tells me that I bore her or at least (since honesty is a rare quality) that she reads the message.

    I would like to send her another message, which would either close the conversation forever (I like closure) or tell her that if she didn't want to talk to me she could have told me instead of ignoring me (I don't care if she doesn't like it, I won't see her anymore anyway). I shouldn't do that though, right?

    Sorry I know it's not that big a deal but to me it is as I cared a lot about that girl. Thanks.

    just send her another message and speak to her like normal.
    I think because you sent her so many long messages about the past etc she didn't have time to read them and got tired so she left it. Send her shorter messages and have a normal convo with her and get to know her now
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