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Boyfriend acts like he likes me, but doesn't actually say the words?

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    So my boyfriend acts like an awesome boyfriend. He's affectionate, caring, asks about my day, remembers things I tell him, is appreciative, makes sure I'm being satisfied during sex, gives me kisses and holds hand all the time. He tells me how awesome/amazing I am.

    He acts as if he's really into me. But he doesn't tell me. He finds it mildly amusing winding me up about silly things, and his new favourite thing to wind me up is about whether he enjoys spending time with me. He also jokes that I'm always inviting myself round, despite him making plans with me and organising it, and then saying 'ok so you're inviting yourself round at 4pm.'

    Am I over thinking things? Because I genuinely think he does enjoy spending time with me, but it's been bugging me recently how he won't tell me he does.

    If it's been bugging you just do some dumbass hollywood-esque dramatic bull where you stare deeply into his eyes with a serious expression and explain to him that you want him to say the words.

    No big deal.
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