Hi, I am 22 and in my postgrad year at uni. This year I started my first ever relationship in November, and we have now been together for nearly 6 months. I know this isn't an uncommon problem, but I am beginning to worry about what we are going to do after university. He has made subtle hints such as 'when you get your own place' and he has also made references to when he will be back home, which would suggest that moving in together would not be on his mind.
I do understand this and realise that since we have not been together for a year it may be deemed as too fast paced to move in. The issue, however is that we are about 3 hours away from each other; in comparison to many people I know this isn't long, but I do believe that you have to be 'willing' to make the effort for it to work.
I myself am willing, I wouldn't be worrying so much otherwise! However I have these horrible doubts in my head that they will go back home and get on with their own life and simply forget I ever existed.
Just recently they have gone home for the holidays, they have been busy messaging me, but I am already feeling quite down and missing their company, I am sort of wondering how I would be able to deal with it when we are permanently that distanced, particularly as we haven't even been together for a year yet so they may feel it is simply 'not worth it'.
I feel as though I am going to have say something to try and gage what their intentions are after uni, but I don't really know when would be the right time to do it, and I am scared I will feel hurt.
I still have 4 months left at uni with him, and I feel a lot can change for better or worse within that time period, so it may seem odd to be worrying about it now, but I can't get it off my mind and I don't know how to approach it!
Relationships after uni
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