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I'm confused. What does she want?

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    I've been on 4 dates with this girl, everything has been going great. We have another date arranged for Sunday but the other day she messaged me saying that she would still like to see me but didn't want to get into a relationship or anything yet.

    We have kissed, been physical etc...so i'm confused.

    Her last relationship ended 4 months ago.

    Should I stop it here and not waste anymore time?

    Any advice?


    Umm I guess you're more of her rebound guy..if you're happy with that, stay. If not then yeah you are wasting time and you should just leave her. But if you have feelings for her, don't waste time, she could practically leave you dry whenever she wants..and there's no point in putting yourself out like that!

    I think she is looking for a casual relationship and if you aren't then i would suggest staying as friends and meet other women.
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