I was out with a girl I met on PoF the other night. It seemed to go pretty well, we we out having a drink for a few hours. She seemed really into me (despite me probably coming across as a bit inexperienced). We were kissing a lot throughout the night and by the end of it we were on the dancefloor, she was grinding against me a lot and at times it was like she couldn't keep her hands off me (I think she could tell I work out).
It was getting to the point where she had to head off for the last train so I said about staying at mine. She said she'd rather not but said on a few occasions that she wanted to meet up again. I hope I didn't give her the impression that I was hell bent on just getting into her knickers, when really it was mostly because I didn't want the night to end as we both seemed to be having a great time.
I don't know if she was saying about meeting up again just so she didn't hurt my feelings. I texted her when I got home to say it was lovely to meet her, wanted to see her again etc but most of her texts the next day have just been fairly standard smalltalk and she hasn't replied to my most recent text, not that there was a lot in it (more smalltalk).
She might have had a busy day, but I dont know if she's just not interested and is too polite to say.
Should I just ask her out for a second date even though she's not replied to my last text? I don't want to look needy and insecure, but at the same time it would be good to just get a straight answer