Am I bi-sexual?

Hi there, this a very sensitive topic for me. Recently, my friend invited me to his house for an evening of Fifa and Call of Duty, something that I was really into at the time. Something struck me as odd during our phone call, he jokingly added at the end of the conversation, 'Bring some lube mate', I laughed in response. It was just so out of character, he was always that friend who would get uncomfortable about his sexuality. I put it down as a joke, and even decided to buy some as a joke, so I picked some up on the way. When I came into his room I produced the lube from my pocket and said 'there's your lube you c***!' as friends often do. He laughed, I laughed. About an hour into Call of Duty he said 'I need a w**k me mate', and I thought to myself 'So do I'. We remembered the lube, at first I thought we were gonna use it separately and achieve climax alone. That's how it started, both of us j*****g off back to back, but then his hand reach around my back and onto my c**k, I won't lie it felt amazing and I c**e right on his hand. Immediately he took has back round and said 'that's gross mate'. He went to the bathroom to wash it and when he came back we went to sleep.

I know I still like girls (slept with approx. 200) but it felt too good. Can you help me? Is this a phase? Will it pass? Or am I bi-sexual?

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Reply 1

Anonymous #2

Is he gay...? Your friend, that is?

Reply 2

||TheUnknown||

Original post by Anonymous

I know I still like girls (slept with approx. 200) but it felt too good. Can you help me? Is this a phase? Will it pass? Or am I bi-sexual?

200?!

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Anonymous #1

Original post by Anonymous

Is he gay...? Your friend, that is?

I really don't know, he's never said he fancies anyone, girls and boys. Thanks for the response btw?

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Anonymous #3

yeah you bi, or maybe bicurious but who knows

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Anonymous #1

Original post by ||TheUnknown||

200?!

Approx. yeah, I've had chlamydia 4 times now :2euk48l:

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Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

I really don't know, he's never said he fancies anyone, girls and boys. Thanks for the response btw?

Well a straight friend...no matter how close, would never do that. Are you attracted to him? Did it feel better than when a girl...pleasured you?
I just think if you're about to climax...you're so horny that it doesn't really matter who is with you, if that makes sense?
Maybe try to watch some gay porn to see if that turns you on at all?

Reply 7

Cobalt_

"I put it down as a joke, and even decided to buy some as a joke, so I picked some up on the way. When I came into his room I produced the lube from my pocket and said 'there's your lube you c***!'"

As you do, as this is such a normal occurrence.

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Anonymous #1

Original post by Anonymous

I'm not turned on by gay porn but his grip was more pleasurable than a female to me

Reply 9

Jonsmith98

Well be what you want to be, the reality is I cant tell you if your Bi or not and nobody can. Only you can really decide if you are. Although my advice is, it sounds like you have had fun, so why not leave the door open, and come out as Bi and then your free to do whatever you feel comfortable doing. It may take a bit more experimentaion to work out exactly where your stance is. Hope this helps!

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Anonymous #1

Original post by Jonsmith98

Thanks John Smith, I'm scared my friends would call me a f****t c**t or something! Thanks for the response x

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Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

I'm not turned on by gay porn but his grip was more pleasurable than a female to me

You're probably just bi-curious...does the idea of you doing stuff with a guy appeal to you at all?

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Anonymous #1

Original post by Anonymous

You're probably just bi-curious...does the idea of you doing stuff with a guy appeal to you at all?

I wouldn't say it appeals per se but I jerk off to it all the time

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Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

I wouldn't say it appeals per se but I jerk off to it all the time

I think you may want to experiment, like the person before me said, only you can tell if you're bi. And frankly the only way you can find out is to experiment. Maybe go to a gay club alone, without telling anyone and see how you feel?

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Anonymous #1

Original post by Anonymous

What's a gay club? x

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Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

What's a gay club? x

A gay club or bar...I think most places have a night dedicated to just a gay night, so strictly all females or all males. Maybe see how you feel once you're in a place like that and having to interact with gay/bi people.

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Anonymous #1

Original post by Anonymous

Do you think they will let me experiment (hand jobs) with them?

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Anonymous #4

I can't tell if youre trolling or not, but in case youre not maybe this will help. Imagine a really hot guy asking you out.. what do you say? lol and who cares about labels anyway, you can like what you like.

Reply 18

Jonsmith98

Original post by Anonymous

Thanks John Smith, I'm scared my friends would call me a f****t c**t or something! Thanks for the response x

Yea, that's somtimes an issue, although in my experiance gay jokes are thrown about a lot as a cheep way to get laughs, but it doesn't immediatly indacte someone as a die hard homophobic and more often than not when you do come out to someone the jokes and derogitory terms are halted with immediate effect.

However Im studying at a collage with a large diversity and basically hang out in the gayest corner of our collage (Yes we actually put up our own flag:

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So my observations may be a bit biased :smile:

Reply 19

Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

Do you think they will let me experiment (hand jobs) with them?

I'd say a fair few people who go to clubs (not all) regardless of if they're straight or gay have the intention of receiving pleasure whenever they do go. I think if you do go to a gay club, people there would appreciate honesty because at one point they had to come out. Maybe just be straight up and tell them you're trying to find you're sexuality...and they may want to help you discover it. Don't go further than what you're comfortable with, make sure the person knows that you're experimenting and always make sure you're seeking/giving consent.

Hope this helps OP