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Can girls be friends with very attractive guys?

With a great personality.
Can you girls?
Without falling for him?

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unless they are ugly, no, they cant
Reply 2
Original post by JokesOnYoo
With a great personality.
Can you girls?
Without falling for him?


Yes. What sort of person are they?
it's a struggle not gonna lie
a lot of different things can be attractive
like one minute you're thinking ok he isn't even that good looking, then he does the smallest thing n you're like ok i like u know
It depends lol. I probably wouldn't be friends with him though.
Reply 6
Original post by jawsontheflooor
it's a struggle not gonna lie
a lot of different things can be attractive
like one minute you're thinking ok he isn't even that good looking, then he does the smallest thing n you're like ok i like u know


Original post by loveleest
It depends lol. I probably wouldn't be friends with him though.


He's like a 10/10, with a great personality.
And he wants to be just friends with you.
Shoulder to cry, penis to ride. Trust me, personal experience.


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Reverse the question.

Let's say I have a hot friend who has a great personality.

Am I confident I could just be friends with her? Yes, if I did catch feelings I would either distance or solve it some other way, point is I very much doubt i'd act on it.

I expect as much from a partner as I would myself.
Yes because feelings/love are subjective, I'm not going to fall in love with every physically attractive guy with a good personality. For example, I have an attractive guy friend with a great personality, but he just isn't my type.
Original post by cosmic angel
Yes because feelings/love are subjective, I'm not going to fall in love with every physically attractive guy with a good personality. For example, I have an attractive guy friend with a great personality, but he just isn't my type.


Hes not attractive enough then.
Im talking so attractive, every girl stares and glances at him.
Original post by DanteTheDoorKnob
Reverse the question.

Let's say I have a hot friend who has a great personality.

Am I confident I could just be friends with her? Yes, if I did catch feelings I would either distance or solve it some other way, point is I very much doubt i'd act on it.

I expect as much from a partner as I would myself.


It doesn't work like that, females are totally different to males.
Original post by JokesOnYoo
It doesn't work like that, females are totally different to males.


Not really, based on actual experiences with them...
It would be difficult... not gonna lie :colondollar:
Well there would have to be something about him that would turn her off enough to be able to comfortable being friends with him. Otherwise have fun building up all that tension between you 2.
Original post by evalilyXOX
It would be difficult... not gonna lie :colondollar:


why?
Reply 16
well if he is:

a. good looking
b. has a good personality
c. a friend...then it would be hard not to fall for him. it also depends if you have a boyf already or not
Original post by JokesOnYoo
He's like a 10/10, with a great personality.
And he wants to be just friends with you.


No, I would not.
The girl who he is with, or just girls in general would feel threatened by me and would probably start romours/drama.
In all honestly, I would just be acquantices with him instead of friends. Much better option :smile:
I have a good friend who is a 10/10 and he knows it, but he uses his looks and treats girls rubbish. He's my friend, but because I know his personality I would never be attracted to him.
Original post by loveleest
No, I would not.
The girl who he is with, or just girls in general would feel threatened by me and would probably start romours/drama.
In all honestly, I would just be acquantices with him instead of friends. Much better option :smile:


Tbh this is exactly what i get all the time.
Im not saying I'm a 10/10, because i personally don't think i am, but girls seem to think that i am.
All girls seem to ignore me, but then ill catch them staring at me.
I understand that no girls will approach me, so I've started approaching girls to make friends.
Even when i approach girls and want to be just friends, they seem suspicious.
How do i actually go about making female friends?
Ive been called a player for no apparent reason.

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