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I dated a sociopath...help please

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    Yeah so last April I finally managed to escape from this socio-path.

    I'm straight and this sociopath wanted me so much that he manipulated me and lied to convince myself that I was bi-sexual to be with him.

    All I wanted was friendship because he was cool, charismatic and came across so awesome, he got his way in making me more than friends.

    Until I found out that everything he told me was a lie, because I would tell other people the cool stuff he done and then to they told me the truth.

    It turns out he told more lies than truths to me...he was so charming though but took advantage of money too, i use to pay for everything and not get much in return.

    Everything he did had motives, he faked his emotions for things and had no shame.

    I need to get over that i've been taken for a fraud...help please

    Just be happy and free now knowing that it is all in the past. I have had awful relationships to and the pain will stick with you for a long time but it will fade. x

    Aww, I feel you :hugs:

    I've been through this horrible experience myself
    It's not the same as a regular break up, because you've been exploited and abused. You will need time to heal xxx

    You can get counselling for it if you wish, I didn't and it is really tough for the first few months.

    Here's some websites that helped me:

    Then some self help:

    Feel free to PM me and we can talk through it, best of luck with your recovery hun xxx
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