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Lonely

So I'm feeling lonely again.

I've been trying to take everyday as it comes and not think about the future but I know at the end of this work and after graduation I will be totally alone (romance wise and friendship wise).

Although I did meet many people at uni, I never made any friends which is really depressing considering the fact uni is supposed to be the time of your life.

I really don't know how to think more positively about this, I din't feel I could ask to meet up with people i know as we aren't close, as they were basically just people I knew from class.

I never formed close friendships at uni and it just sucks... plus on top of that I really don't know what to do about jobs in the future...

Im not sure I'll be able to even find a job, as I don't think uni really helped me develop my skills.

It just looks like I'm doomed for loneliness

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People won't even respond to your TSR posts.

How tragic is that.
Reply 2
Original post by DanteTheDoorKnob
People won't even respond to your TSR posts.

How tragic is that.


It is tragic :frown:
Reply 3
Hi I can be your friend! :smile:

You're never alone! :h:
You have your whole life to meet people! Just put yourself out there and get to know as many people as you can! Good luck!
What are you afraid of? The worst that could possibly happen is rejection.
Original post by DanteTheDoorKnob
People won't even respond to your TSR posts.

How tragic is that.


You're vile.
Reply 7
Original post by Anonymous
So I'm feeling lonely again.

I've been trying to take everyday as it comes and not think about the future but I know at the end of this work and after graduation I will be totally alone (romance wise and friendship wise).

Although I did meet many people at uni, I never made any friends which is really depressing considering the fact uni is supposed to be the time of your life.

I really don't know how to think more positively about this, I din't feel I could ask to meet up with people i know as we aren't close, as they were basically just people I knew from class.

I never formed close friendships at uni and it just sucks... plus on top of that I really don't know what to do about jobs in the future...

Im not sure I'll be able to even find a job, as I don't think uni really helped me develop my skills.

It just looks like I'm doomed for loneliness


Can you list all mistakes you did at uni?

I'll make sure to not repeat them.

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Reply 8
hey, I do understand what you mean, but please don't get sad or worried.

Feel free to PM me, I can have a look at your CV if you want and help with generic job market.
Original post by bethwalker85
You're vile.


Thank you. I did bump the thread though, so at least i'm useful, whereas you are just a knob.
Youll find some great people soon!!
And dont worry about getting a job! Youll get one and have an amazing career! Just focus on getting the grades and things will fall into place!!!
Original post by Anonymous
So I'm feeling lonely again.

I've been trying to take everyday as it comes and not think about the future but I know at the end of this work and after graduation I will be totally alone (romance wise and friendship wise).

Although I did meet many people at uni, I never made any friends which is really depressing considering the fact uni is supposed to be the time of your life.

I really don't know how to think more positively about this, I din't feel I could ask to meet up with people i know as we aren't close, as they were basically just people I knew from class.

I never formed close friendships at uni and it just sucks... plus on top of that I really don't know what to do about jobs in the future...

Im not sure I'll be able to even find a job, as I don't think uni really helped me develop my skills.

It just looks like I'm doomed for loneliness


1. Uni experience and friends. Its not the same for everyone and for some it is a bit of a let down, but you probably didnt make the most of it. Its just abiout done now.

2. You might want to look ahead as to how you are going to tackle those issues in the future, learn to socialise and then eventually find a gf.

3. You cna start working on your self esteem either through direct classes and reading or just getting involved on hobbies and activities. just things that interest you and being around people. being round people and engaging with them is going to give you the best chance of comvating loneliness.

4. When you get to work, then you will have the chance to make new friends there.

5. To find a job you will need to be doing research online or going to your uni careers service.
https://nationalcareersservice.direct.gov.uk/Pages/Home.aspx
https://www.prospects.ac.uk/
http://www.milkround.com/

6. To do all the things you say you want to, then you have to take steps to do something about it and keep going. It cna be learned and you cna get over the loneliness, but you have to make the effort.

Hang in there.
Original post by Anonymous
So I'm feeling lonely again.

I've been trying to take everyday as it comes and not think about the future but I know at the end of this work and after graduation I will be totally alone (romance wise and friendship wise).

Although I did meet many people at uni, I never made any friends which is really depressing considering the fact uni is supposed to be the time of your life.

I really don't know how to think more positively about this, I din't feel I could ask to meet up with people i know as we aren't close, as they were basically just people I knew from class.

I never formed close friendships at uni and it just sucks... plus on top of that I really don't know what to do about jobs in the future...

Im not sure I'll be able to even find a job, as I don't think uni really helped me develop my skills.

It just looks like I'm doomed for loneliness


Hey there!

I'll be your friend! Be positive about your future as well, I'm sure you shall do great! :biggrin:
Also, feel free to PM me :smile:
Original post by Impressive
Can you list all mistakes you did at uni?

I'll make sure to not repeat them.

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It wasn't mistakes in terms of work, it was more social mistakes..

not talking to or befriending certain people..
Original post by 999tigger
1. Uni experience and friends. Its not the same for everyone and for some it is a bit of a let down, but you probably didnt make the most of it. Its just abiout done now.

2. You might want to look ahead as to how you are going to tackle those issues in the future, learn to socialise and then eventually find a gf.

3. You cna start working on your self esteem either through direct classes and reading or just getting involved on hobbies and activities. just things that interest you and being around people. being round people and engaging with them is going to give you the best chance of comvating loneliness.

4. When you get to work, then you will have the chance to make new friends there.

5. To find a job you will need to be doing research online or going to your uni careers service.
https://nationalcareersservice.direct.gov.uk/Pages/Home.aspx
https://www.prospects.ac.uk/
http://www.milkround.com/

6. To do all the things you say you want to, then you have to take steps to do something about it and keep going. It cna be learned and you cna get over the loneliness, but you have to make the effort.

Hang in there.


Lol i'm not a guy.
Be positive!! I know it's easier said than done but here's my story and you'll see I was in the same situation as you and my life is so much better now. There is hope.

I spent 5 years at uni. I had no friends either. Anyway when I finished uni I was 23, I still had no friends (I never saw anyone again), I had never had a GF in my life and I thought I would never find a job. My master's degree is useless, there's no work in that 'sector'.

It's been more than 2 years. I'm 25 now. About 1 month later I met a girl who introduced me to her group of friends. I got about 20 good friends thanks to her. I still see them every week and I'm glad they're my friends. I got a decent job 1 year later. And although I still have no GF I've had 2 since I finished uni.

Hang in there, there will be better days. The past is the past, you didn't have any friends at uni? So what, it's over, forget about that.
Original post by Anonymous
Lol i'm not a guy.


You missed all the points.
Original post by Anonymous
So I'm feeling lonely again.

I've been trying to take everyday as it comes and not think about the future but I know at the end of this work and after graduation I will be totally alone (romance wise and friendship wise).

Although I did meet many people at uni, I never made any friends which is really depressing considering the fact uni is supposed to be the time of your life.

I really don't know how to think more positively about this, I din't feel I could ask to meet up with people i know as we aren't close, as they were basically just people I knew from class.

I never formed close friendships at uni and it just sucks... plus on top of that I really don't know what to do about jobs in the future...

Im not sure I'll be able to even find a job, as I don't think uni really helped me develop my skills.

It just looks like I'm doomed for loneliness


Listen to this song, it can help you wallow in your sadness or make you happy.
whichever you choose.

[video="youtube;aGzgoSg5OZg"]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aGzgoSg5OZg&index=113&list=PL86nCRSHJsuVXL9T4u7VXtqmWz yawCK1s[/video]
Original post by Anonymous
It wasn't mistakes in terms of work, it was more social mistakes..

not talking to or befriending certain people..


So, what was the main issue?

The fact that these people were different to you (e.g. Different hobbies/behaviour), different age gap, or just simply you didn't have the courage to hang out with them? (shy)

I'm in similar situation atm. Although it's college.

You may be lost cause already but you can still help me by answering questions.

Original post by thefatone
Listen to this song, it can help you wallow in your sadness or make you happy.
whichever you choose.

[video="youtube;aGzgoSg5OZg"]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aGzgoSg5OZg&index=113&list=PL86nCRSHJsuVXL9T4u7VXtqmWz yawCK1s[/video]


No nightcore this time.

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Original post by Impressive


No nightcore this time.

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lol not night core, good old Green Day

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