My boyfriend of 18 months broke up with me today. Until the last month or so, we'd had a good relationship. However, in the last six weeks I sensed him becoming distant but I just thought he was busy with his job.
However, today he came over to mine and I confronted him to find out what was going on with him. It got emotional very quickly and he told me I was breaking his heart as he loved me to pieces and I'd been a great girlfriend, but he couldn't explain why he was being distant and said he needed some space. The reason he said he wanted space so was he could figure out what he wanted and so if we were to continue in a relationship he could start treating me how I should be treated.
I told him I wasn't happy to wait around a few weeks prolonging the pain for him to decided he didn't want to be with me. It ended with us breaking up but he told me he still wants to be a part of my life and he seemed really shocked/upset when I told him that I think it best we cut contact for a while so we can clear our heads.
I love him a lot and he told me that I'm one of the best things that ever happened to him and that he'll always love me, but he's not treating me right and I deserve better. It was a horrible afternoon and we both cried a lot and I've never see him before.
Is it common to break up with someone even though you still love them? Does it sound like there is a possibility of reconcillation? Even though we've officially broken up, it still doesn't feel ''finished''. I just want some advice because I feel so low
Boyfriend broke up with me but still loves me.
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