If somebody attacks me, regardless of gender, I'll use whatever force is necessary and legal in self defence.
On the same theme, If somebody was able to deal with a situation without hitting the aggressor because she was female, then is it really justified for them to act more violently because they were dealing with a male?
If you can get out of a situation without using force, regardless of the other person's gender, then is force justified?
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