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    Okay so, there's this senior guy at my school (im a junior in hs btw) and it all started a month ago when he randomly started texting me over fb. I've only known him for a month, and I've talked to him through fb message a couple of times, and he also came up to me & my best friend at school to have a little chat. (He was really nervous haha)
    I feel like this guy is really interested in me since he keeps making effort to talk & he keeps asking questions about me even when I'm just giving him short answers..
    Though I kind of have pity with him? He's not exactly my type so i'm not really interested in him? Like I dont want to be offensive but I really dont think we fit eachother (if he wants a relationship). The worst thing is that I have feeling for a guy who's in his class?
    Anyway, so yesterday he messaged me again, after a week of not talking, if i want to hang out with him over the weekend..I dont know what to do with this guy? Please help me? Should I just go and look what happens & eventually tell him how I feel about it? Or should I cancel plans? 🙄

    If you're not interested, be upfront about it now. Just be polite and let him down easy. No point leading him on. You could just say you're interested in someone else and say you want to just be friends (if you actually do).

    tell him you like him as a friend but no more. it's noice and to the point. my friend recently had the gut to tell her crush but he said the exact same thing. she was a little bit upset but she got over it because he didnt lead her on
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