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Dealing with negative people, bullies

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    For the past week I've been very stressed and shouting a lot, not because I've wanted to, because for how I've been treated.

    I can't study properly because I keep thinking of the negative people and how they could manipulate the situation.

    Basically I'm in my final year and some the of the uncles, aunties (which I will call) are looking for a good bride for their son, daughter vice versa, unfortunately 3-4 of these sons have failed in their careers and they cannot see the sight of me succeeding and marrying better so they have to put me down (the uncles/aunties), shout out things if I make one mistake and generally try their best to worsen my reputation.

    I've had women say to other people I am a bad person because I don't fancy their daughter.

    I shouldn't care, however, they could defame me and because these uncles, aunties are popular, you never know what they could say to other people behind my back.

    I've been stressed and worried a lot, is the result of this high blood pressure? They I threaten court action if I hear anything out of the ordinary? That would quiet them down for sure.

    I'm not sure from your post whether you're overreacting due to stress or whether you're being bullied, more objectively speaking.

    Could you give a few examples of what the aunties/uncles etc are doing/saying?
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