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Why do I feel like this!? I need help!!

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    I've probably been crushing on this girl I work with for like 5 months, I have only just started, say in the last month, being confident talking to her and not getting nervous when I see her (I'm acting more like myself). I go everyday thinking about her and can't get her out my head, the only time I can is when I'm lifting at the gym... But that's only for about 2 hours a day, even when I play video games I still think about her. There times when I thought she liked me, we stared into each other eyes for like 10 seconds once (this month), however she had ignored 2 of my messages as well this month. We barley talk on Facebook anymore and we used to tag each in post but then she ignored a response that I wrote to her tagging me randomly. Then she completely ignored a post that I tagged her in and never said anything about it. By the way this was before we stared at each others eyes.

    Today she told me about a customer that's been stalking her, and was saying 'why do people keeping messaging someone after they have been ignored'.... She ignored one of my messages before and I kept messaging her, but she responded to them. That conversation was awkward for me as I felt like she was trying to tell me something trough it. I'm always looking at her social media to she what she is up to as I can't stop thinking about her and it satisfy that pleasure of not seeing her...

    I don't know if anyone will read this but if you did that was nice of you

    Basically I don't know how to stop thinking about her I'm more on the side as she does not like me as she's told me that '' You'll be a good friend if I do that ''. I can't stop seeing her as I she her at work, do I remove her from Facebook? But she may think we are good friends and that it was weird for me to remove her. At the moment I'm just living day to day to go to work and she her/talk to her....

    Just leave her alone and move on, I'd say she isn't interested.
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