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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm in Year 11, for the past few months a Year 7 girl has expressed interest in me. She also makes a point of hugging me when she has the opportunity. She has also admitted to me she has a crush on me.

    Just to make it clear I have NO interest in her.

    How should I handle the situation?
    Be friendly but tell her it wouldn't be right. Don't just say "no" like that because it's a wicked fast way of destroying a girl's feelings and confidence, especially at that age and with those hormones.

    Keep her as a friend until shes 16

    You will have to tell her frankly. Also, she has to understand that she's too young at this moment in time, and if she persists in her quest to get with you, then you may have to tell her family about what's been going on, or at the very least, try to distance yourself from her. Sorry if this isn't helpful BTW.
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