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Want to hear stories from people who have slept with their best friend

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    Long story short, I've known my best friend now for 5 years and, tbh, for nearly 4 of those years I've been into her. She's recently admitted that she has started to get feelings for me too and has told me that she'd be willing to explore more physical things with me but said she didn't want to cock up our friendship, basically giving me the option of just staying friends or going further. The other night I was round hers and we ended up mutually masturbating. It hasn't been awkward since but judging by messages we're going to end up sleeping together pretty soon so this is kind of my last chance to back out if I wanted to haha

    Just wanted to hear from people who had crossed this barrier, how awkward it was and how it ended up. Did it and the friendship fall apart or did you end up in a relationship? Whatever really...

    If you say no, I doubt you're friendship will stay the same lmao.

    Not a best friend but a close friend nevertheless. Both of us caught feelings (though I firmly believe that mine were stronger) and it went on for nearly two years. I got hurt very badly and ended things, still can't bring myself to talk to him because I'm still hurting.

    My advice to you is to not let it drag on. If you're going to go into the FWB territory, don't let it last for longer than a few months before reverting back to just being friends, not unless you want it to be something more than a FWB relationship.
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