Hey there! Sign in to join this conversationNew here? Join for free

6 months since we broke up?

Announcements Posted on
Last day to win £100 of Amazon vouchers - don't miss out! Take our quick survey to enter 24-10-2016
    • Thread Starter

    Ok so basically I've known this boy for roughly 3 years now, we come from the same community so I've kinda known him since I've been a child. We started properly talking back in 2013 just as friends and then that same year we both started having feelings for each other although nothing happened.
    Over the years me and this guy were literally like best friends, we used to speak about everything all day everyday, and then last august he told me he loved me. I decided to give in and give the relationship a go, it was a beautiful relationship our families knew about each other and everyone approved of this relationship (my family did know his family personally ) and then my best friend and his brother hooked up together (they still are) and it was quite fun actually.
    After a while in nov he decided to break up with me saying that he no longer had feelings for me although he's told different stories to everyone.

    its now 6 months and i still miss him like crazy, we've not spoke to each other but we've seen eachother numerous times at weddings and stuff.
    To make me feel better I've tried dating again but just doesn't fee right. My family still teases me about him which does make things worse..

    For reference were both 17.

    Maybe there is a reason in why he broke up with you. It might be something that involves you or something that might involve something else. When you love someone you don't just fall out of a relationship just like that. My advice: confront him. Be straight up and ask for the real reason he broke up with you. If he tells you then good for you. If he doesn't then don't pressurise him. Give him space and try to distant yourself from him. Remember, people are different so don't expect him to open up to you just like that. If he continues to ignore you then maybe its time for you to move on. It is hard yes i know but remember that life may bless you with another soul who is a whole lot better. Close your eyes, Take a deep breath and let go. And know it is for the best. I wish you the best of luck.
    Lots of love,

    Oh and asfor your family tell them you do not like it when they tease you i am sure that they will understand
Write a reply…


Submit reply


Thanks for posting! You just need to create an account in order to submit the post
  1. this can't be left blank
    that username has been taken, please choose another Forgotten your password?
  2. this can't be left blank
    this email is already registered. Forgotten your password?
  3. this can't be left blank

    6 characters or longer with both numbers and letters is safer

  4. this can't be left empty
    your full birthday is required
  1. Oops, you need to agree to our Ts&Cs to register
  2. Slide to join now Processing…

Updated: May 25, 2016
TSR Support Team

We have a brilliant team of more than 60 Support Team members looking after discussions on The Student Room, helping to make it a fun, safe and useful place to hang out.

Would you rather find

The Student Room, Get Revising and Marked by Teachers are trading names of The Student Room Group Ltd.

Register Number: 04666380 (England and Wales), VAT No. 806 8067 22 Registered Office: International House, Queens Road, Brighton, BN1 3XE

Reputation gems: You get these gems as you gain rep from other members for making good contributions and giving helpful advice.