I'm a girl and I think I have feelings for my best guy friend which is really hard to admit, but he has a girlfriend and that makes me sad and I guess jealous so that must mean I have feelings for him. I don't know what to do. They haven't been together very long but he really really likes her he told me.
He has been seeing this girl for a while but they were never official until recently, we have had sex during that time, until they became official (yes save the moral lectures you don't know the situation and I'm not going to explain it as it doesn't matter) which I think made me get feelings for him. I never had them before and I had a boyfriend for a long time before (I never even thought of another guy when I was with him). When we had sex we never really discussed that or feelings because I think we both accepted he was seeing this girl and I didn't even admit to myself I have feelings for him until today and it's been about 6 months now since we first slept with eachother. I also don't think either of us would want to risk the friendship since we're so close.
I don't know what to do because obviously I'm going to respect his relationship but I am worried spending time with him will just make feelings grow... but I don't want to not be his friend but I it hurts knowing he's with someone else. Advice?