I had been dating a guy for 2 months when I broke it off over a week ago. I like to plan, he doesn't. It caused a lot of issues because I felt like I was chasing him & he didn't seem bothered (even though we always have a lot of fun in person). Actually, when I am not able to make plans in advance...at least by 2-3 days I feel a great deal of anxiety.
It came to a head last weekend and I said we should stop seeing each other for now. After about 4 days, I began to regret this & thought maybe I had been too hasty. We talked and at first he seemed hurt and a bit hostile, but he came around. I asked to meet him either Mon or Wed and he said 'ok, let's do that.' I asked him to let me know which day suits.
Now it's Sunday and I haven't heard from him in nearly 4 days. I do feel like he is punishing me (fair enough) AND my family has asked to see me for a nice dinner together tomorrow (Monday)
Here I am waiting around like a mug for him to confirm plans and yet I would like to visit my family tomorrow. Should I contact him one more time to let him know or just get on with my life & forget him for now? The last thing I need is for him to contact me tomorrow and for me to be like "oh I know I said I'd be free but I actually made other plans..."