Wasn't a date...
So there's this guy that I really like from work, and I finally built up the courage to ask him out for a coffee, only when we met it totally didn't feel like a date, and he'd obviously not interpreted it as me asking him out. So I'm not sure what to do next, like should I ask to meet again (but i don't want to seem annoying and weird), or should I tell him outright that I like him? Help 
Original post by Anonymous
So there's this guy that I really like from work, and I finally built up the courage to ask him out for a coffee, only when we met it totally didn't feel like a date, and he'd obviously not interpreted it as me asking him out. So I'm not sure what to do next, like should I ask to meet again (but i don't want to seem annoying and weird), or should I tell him outright that I like him? Help
The truth
I'd interpret this as free coffee, as long as you're paying.
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Original post by Anonymous
So there's this guy that I really like from work, and I finally built up the courage to ask him out for a coffee, only when we met it totally didn't feel like a date, and he'd obviously not interpreted it as me asking him out. So I'm not sure what to do next, like should I ask to meet again (but i don't want to seem annoying and weird), or should I tell him outright that I like him? Help
Are you M or F?
Take it slow and easy, 
We split the bill (i guess another sign it wasn't a date!). Yeah I guess the truth would help me to know where I stand and there's no misinterpretation. It's just scary! I'm trying not to rush things, it's just difficult not knowing what he's thinking and whether I'm agonising over this for nothing 
I'm female
And the coffee was a few weeks ago so I'm not instantly rushng out to ask him out for another drink again
If you'd like to try again why not ask him to join you for a drink after work. Make sure you pay!! If drinks go well you could suggest going somewhere for dinner. Good Luck!
How old are you? Go for proper drinks and dress up nice He should get the hint then.
He should get the hint then.Quick Reply
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