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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    nah i want something serious, but i wanna get to know them more and see who i have the best chance having a long term relationship. previously i have attracted boys who purely want head/sex or are really controlling and want to speak 24/7 and meet every day- even when im busy with family or exams

    i want someone that has the same priorities as me and understands me, who i can open up to and be physical with
    Okay serious is good as long as when/if one of these relationships begins to get serious (start sleeping together, have feelings for each other) then you let go of the others I don't see what the problem should be

    My friend did this a few years ago, falling for 3 guys at once. When she picked one all that happend was it went very messy very fast. If you like that many at once i don't think you truly like any of them enough and should wait until you can clearly tell which one is or you. Don't do what my friend did and pick one and then mess them all around cause its not fair on the guys. Good Luck

    Wait a bit, until you're comfortable with what happened with your ex and you don't feel like you love him anymore. Liking so many guys at once...if there was just one, I'd say go for it, but it sounds a bit like you're desperately searching for someone to fill the void left by your ex and forcing yourself into another relationship.It's perfectly natural to want to do that (as I'm currently finding out myself - it's difficult when you go from having someone you were so close to and loved dearly, to being single), but I think it's important to be comfortable being on your own before you launch into something serious. Now's an ideal time to focus on yourself and doing what you like, socialise as much as you can, and the right man will come along eventually, probably when you're least expecting it

    If I found out I was part of a hareem of men it would greatly put me off the girl

    good lawd girl, whittle it down already

    you're like a female Lou Bager

    Mambo no.5
    your version:
    A little bit of Martin in my life
    A little bit of Eric by my side
    A little bit of Ronald is all I need
    A little bit of Tamwar is what I see
    A little bit of Stephen in the sun
    A little bit of Mohammed all night long
    A little bit of Jonathan here I am......
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