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Lost virginity to escort: feeling guilty

I lost my virgnity to an escort last weekend. I used protection throughout, so that is not what I am worried about.

I am just feeling so disgusted with myself that I just threw away my virginity like that in such an immoral way. Like when I heard about the footballers hiring escorts, I saw them as filth, and now I feel like I am filth myself...

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In this case I would say get a grip and get over yourself.

You are an adult. You made a decision. Take responsibility for it.

Not seeing the big deal.
Mistakes are made to be learned from my friend.

I did the same as you, I wish i didn't do it but there's nothing that can be done.

I remember asking about it like you but some piece of crap called viva la emptiness called me a loser.

You will get people that will look down on you for it but at the end of the day it's how you feel about it.
(edited 7 years ago)
Well you can't unpop a cherry. Just move on.
What's done is done. No use crying over it now. If you feel silly don't do it again.
Reply 6
I hope you now realise the pressure to lose virginity is a really stupid one that people shouldn't blindly give into :frown:.

Anyway, what's done is done. Just move on and accept it.
Reply 7
Classy.
Original post by Inexorably
I hope you now realise the pressure to lose virginity is a really stupid one that people shouldn't blindly give into :frown:.

Anyway, what's done is done. Just move on and accept it.


This, I wish I knew this back when I was 17.
you better not be muslim lol
No use feeling guilty about it now. You did what you had to do - everybody needs sex but for some people it's just a lot harder to get to that stage in a relationship. Escorts are not for everyone. I assume you won't be going back to do it again - so take this as an opportunity to work on your appearance, look after your own health, focus on your career etc. All these things will help your confidence with girls so next time round you won't have to visit a stranger.
Reply 11
I'm considering doing it.
Original post by Anonymous
you better not be muslim lol


I'm am Muslim
Original post by eden3
I'm considering doing it.


Don't, you will feel like sludge afterwards. My friend told me the same thing but I didn't listen and paid the price.
Original post by Anonymous
I'm am Muslim


Are you male or female?
Virginity is a social construct.

Learn from this experience, grasp why it affected you in such a way and don't repeat the same mistake. Move on.
Reply 16
Original post by Longshot708
Don't, you will feel like sludge afterwards. My friend told me the same thing but I didn't listen and paid the price.


Bro I've just gone through one year of uni and I still haven't even kissed a girl. I don't see any other options. I'm limited by my ugliness.
Original post by Anonymous
I lost my virgnity to an escort last weekend. I used protection throughout, so that is not what I am worried about.

I am just feeling so disgusted with myself that I just threw away my virginity like that in such an immoral way. Like when I heard about the footballers hiring escorts, I saw them as filth, and now I feel like I am filth myself...


What would your mother think?
Original post by Anonymous
I lost my virgnity to an escort last weekend. I used protection throughout, so that is not what I am worried about.

I am just feeling so disgusted with myself that I just threw away my virginity like that in such an immoral way. Like when I heard about the footballers hiring escorts, I saw them as filth, and now I feel like I am filth myself...


How did you meet this escort what website did u use.
Original post by Anonymous
I lost my virgnity to an escort last weekend. I used protection throughout, so that is not what I am worried about.

I am just feeling so disgusted with myself that I just threw away my virginity like that in such an immoral way. Like when I heard about the footballers hiring escorts, I saw them as filth, and now I feel like I am filth myself...


Yoou're like one of those people who sees someone else stab themself and die and someone nearby tells you that's not good and you shouldn't do it but you do it anyway and stab yourself xD

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