Anyone here not actually love their mother?

I don't think that is a fair thing to say. Not all Mother's are great.

My birthday is the day after my mum's.

What a coincidence

I love my mum to bits.

Yes, I prefer my Mum to my Dad 100%. I haven't spoken to my Dad in over 10 years now, me and my Mum don't have a perfect relationship but my Dad was just never there for me.

Just a teensy bit curious...do you love one parent over another? or not really.
(sorry if this is all in your face )

Agreed, no one is perfect but that doesn't mean they don't deserve your love, unless they themselves prevent you from doing that.

Some Mothers are not good Mothers and do not deserve to get shown any love point blank period. Some mothers are abusive and just really trashy in general. Just because they have given birth to you doesn't mean you should love them.

Yeah I know some mothers are terrible, but they can still be changed into who they were, like in the case of the post the user made about her mother being terrible at first then turning out right.

Everyone deserves a chance, regardless of what has been done in the past.

I disagree. Your Mother giving birth to doesn't really mean much to be honest.
Yes they can change but doesn't mean they are. I have heard the most disgusting stories about what some Mothers have done to their own children. I don't think they deserve the slightest bit of love at all regardless if they have changed or not.

Did you really just write that?

Anyway yes I already addressed the point of some mothers who are inherently vicious wicked people, but at the same time, there are still some mothers out there who seem to be unpleasant that are just going through a stage. I had it with my mother, where all she would do is scream and shout etc at me.

It's just a phase that they are going through and they still need your Love. Being a child isn't a one sided affair when all the parents have to do is shower with you gifts money and clothes, you're supposed to go the extra mile yourself.

What is wrong with you? How can you not love your own mother? What has she done to deserve this? Nothing. Everyone should love their parents no matter what because they created you, protected you, cared for you and provided for you.

Yes I did and I 100% mean what I said. Giving birth does not signify if you will be a good parent or not. It actually doesn't mean anything.

I am not talking about unpleasant Mothers, I said that the wicked/evil ones shouldn't deserve to get any love. A phase isn't an excuse to be an evil women. My Dad hasn't bothered to stay in my life but should I love him? no.

I didn't get your last point? please address it to me again? Being a parent is more than just gifts and money or what not? (If that is what you implied)

LOL? You do know that abusive parents exist right?

The act of giving life to you and not aborting you and turning your conception into an abortion statistic isn't anything?

WOW. People these days.


The case of your dad is, if he wasn't a part of your life then you have no reason to either love them or hate them, you can't decide on that because you don't know him. What I was talking about are parents you live with that seem to be very strict, very abusive and very unpleasant. Some parents are like that, some teachers are like that and some friends are like that, but that doesn't mean they can't change and turn into better human beings, like i said. My mother 3 years ago was probably 3 times as bad as the OP's mother, but I loved her then and still love her now.


The point was that Children aren't just supposed to sit on their a*ss and expect their parents to do everything for them, there are some times when they need you just as much as you need them and you as a child have to show them that support

Its not a coincidence your mum did it by purpose

It was a coincidence because apparently I was "unexpected" and born a month earlier.

However, i still love my mum

How were you born a month early:O so were you only in for 8 months :L thats amazing & ahh yeah same

As someone who loves and would do anything for their parents, some of you are being ridiculous. If a someone has a child they are not entitled to their child's love until they treat them with love and compassion - children don't ask to be born and aren't brought into this world with the sole purpose of loving their parents. Spouting the narrative that you should love your parents unconditionally, even if they're abusive and horrible people, is dangerous and silences child abuse victims. Abusive and bad parents do not deserve unconditional love and that's a fact - whether their child decides to forgive them and show them love is another matter. Try to have a bit of empathy and realise that everyone has different experiences to you which shapes how they feel about their parents, and that your values aren't and shouldn't be universal to everyone.

I was only in for 7.

Premature and proud.

#Represent