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    Before I start I should probably say that I am completely aware of the fact that what I did was wrong, and I'm not looking for sympathy, I could just really use some advice.

    I went to a party the other night with the sole aim of getting drunk. I've been going out with my boyfriend for a couple of months but he couldn't go to the party because he was busy. Anyway whilst I was there I kissed my friend (who's a girl) multiple times. I don't know how to tell my boyfriend and I don't know how he'll take it, especially since I and out to him as bi a few weeks ago. Is it best to tell him straight or wait a while before breaking it to him? And should I tell him face to face or text him? Please help.

    Show him this thread.

    I think what you really need to do is sit him down, say you'd like to talk about something that happened at a party and just come out with it. Tell him the circumstances, tell him you know it was wrong and you regret it, and give him the space if he needs it. The best thing you can do in this situation is to be honest with him I think, and you'll feel so much better once it's over and done with. The sooner you tell him, the better he'll take it I think. If there was any feeling between you and this girl, it's probably best you tell him about that too so he can process it. Hope this helps and good luck
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