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Boyfriend is still in the closet and hasn't introduced me to his friends.

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Why bother with a post grad? Are they even worth it? Have your say! 26-10-2016

    Pretty obvious he hasn't come out to other people yet. It might be hard for him - his family might be religious, friends unsupportive etc.

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    Thanks for all your help and comments i'll try and be supportive.

    One other thing you might consider besides that he is just not ready to come out is that as you say you come from an extremely affluent background. What is his background? If he's seen your house he might be uncomfortable having you see his modest home or meet his parents/friends who are not well off. Surely after 7 months you have mutual friends together who know you're a couple. Anyway, if you are getting along together well then leave it for now. I would imagine, though, if this is going to be a long term relationship this topic will come up again. Good Luck.
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    I think that might be it also...he doesn't come from an affluent background he lives in a modest house but i have told him he doesn't need to worry as i don't judge at all.
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