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telling him how you feel? or shut up and dont tell him anything

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    well as you probably guessed i have a problem on whether i should tell my 'crush' how i feel about him. i have so many questions that are not entirely based on me and not knowing what to do but i generally want to know more about this issue many girls probably have. 'Do i tell him? do i let him walk out of my life? what if he rejects me? will it scare me for life? how will i get over it?'
    it is complicated. Help? anyone? please?

    Talk to him and tell him how u feel.

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    If you don't tell him, you will sit thinking in years to come "what if I did tell him?" You will regret it, I promise.

    Talk to him! either online or in person, trust me it'll help the both of you to get to know each other better, and once you're sure about your feelings and can anticipate his, to an extent, let him know how you feel and hope for the best!

    You ask them out, they say yes or no.

    What is complicated? Are they in prison or something?

    I'd say go for it! The worst case is that he doesn't feel the same way, then you're just back to where you are now.
    Don't go around professing your love for him, maybe just invite him out for lunch or a coffee or something. I don't understand why us girls think we can't just ask someone out.

    I definitely say go for it. I sort of did and even though it kinda got more complicated I'm very clear on where I stand now and that is definitely a better feeling than what if.
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