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Looks like I've been ghosted by guy after 2 months - should I call him out or not?

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    Last week I posted a thread saying I hadn't heard from guy I've been dating exclusively for over 2 months. Most people said chill, but it does really look like he's giving me the cold shoulder.

    When I last saw him he cooked me dinner and opened up about different things in his life. Told he's feeling unsure about his future, but hinted at being with me more long-term yadda yadda.

    Well, he got back from graduating in his home country yesterday, this morning I saw that he was online but he has not contacted me. Usually he texts me every morning that he is here. Afternoon now, nothing.

    I am really disgusted by this behaviour. I find it abhorrent to just disappear on someone you have been intimate with for 2 months without an explanation.

    Should I just leave it or say something?
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    *also it's going on 6 days since we have spoken. We have never not talked for this long.
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