So when I'm having a bottle of wine and some Stilton and crackers with my girlfriend, and we start getting busy, is that rape?
Sorry but if you belief this stuff, you have clearly never been laid or been in a relationship in your life. Ever been to a party? People get drunk and shag at those. Hope it doesn't shock your ridiculously conservative (yes, conservative. You people are the most conservative people around these days) morals too much.
Additionally, it's incredibly patronising and infantilising to women. Because clearly those who believe this are not bothered by the idea of a woman having sex with a drunk man. Only vice versa, which basically means they think that women can't take responsibility for themselves nor make decisions whilst drunk.
Clearly having sex with a girl who is semi-concious is wrong but this kind of hysterical absolutism is really awful.