A few years ago i was very foolish and made a complete mess. I was entangled in a web with this guy three years older than me whilst i was only 13-14, and at the time i was in a really conservative friendship group and they completely overreacted to what i expected when i told them everything and it created tgis big dramatic situation which i never wanted. They assumed (i never acrually told them directly) that i lost my v too soon and apread the news around the whole group. I had only told my close friend in confidence. But she told everyone in the group.
Anyway, two years later i am not associated with that group at all. I havr been good mates with this other girl for sometime and she knows i am hiding something but ... this is something i have not said - i am still with the guy. We really do love each other and will have been together for four years in august. She has no idea who he is. I have told her i am in a relationship but she doesnt believe me as ive not privided her with any evidence of his existence. I dont have a problem with keeping how young i was. How quick things happenrd etc private but she keeps digging for details which i do not want to give and accuses me og trusting that first girl more than her, which is not true as it is another situation. I cang really fit four years of information into one conversation. Amd it would jusg highlight the length of time i have kept it secret, making her distrust me further!? What should i do???
I peraonally think i have a right to privacy? She keeps trying to set me up with blokes who are 1/10 !!??
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