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    My bf has a friend (female), who i dont necessarily like too much, but i dont really know her. Anyway, she messaged my bf asking why she hadn't seen him recently and my bf gave me his phone to reply. I sent a really funny reply explaining he had explosive bowels and couldn't go out for weeks, basically i was just trying to be funny.

    She then responded by laughing and saying she hopes i sent the message because if so, she likes me even more. I then told my bf i felt bad about not liking her when i dont really know her, so sent her a nice message with smiles and kisses saying i liked her too and i hope things were alright between her bf and her (as they were having relationship troubles). She then responded with a really sarcastic message saying they broke up and she was moving onto other guys. Basically, she thinks was rubbing my relationship and the fact that she had issues in hers, in her face. My bf thinks i was doing the same, but i had no bad intentions whatsoever.

    Was i being mean??

    Not at all

    No you were trying to make an effort, it doesn't sound like you intended to be mean, you just sent the message at the wrong time because she was upset which is not your fault x

    I guess they took it as being mean. I suggest you just tell them that you meant the message in a nice way and you weren't trying to rub it in her face.
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