To me, the way you said you said 'if so then help me change' proves that you're not being malicious or ignorant. These are your personal views and you're willing to change them.
I have friends who are gay and one of my closest friends is transgender. I honestly genuinely believe that it is completely okay. To me anything that does not affect people in a negative way (like killing them/hurting them) is fine. We are a world that is far too interesting in what everyone else is doing. So George from Starbucks is sexually attracted to men. Can he still serve you a coffee? Yes. If Emma from the clothes store tells you her birth name was Dave but she was born in the wrong body and is now transitioning to her true self, will she still be able to get you another size in them shoes? Yes.
Literally could put so many examples, it doesn't matter someone's sexual preference/gender/race/hair/ bloody shoe size , what ever the hell people are against, if they are nice people then what's the issue here? You have your beliefs, your opinions, the same way they have theirs. Now are you going to disapprove of George being gay, or drink your Cappuccino, and get on with your day?
-Just my opinions, if you want like hard fact on psychological stuff then I'm not the girl to ask haha-
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