At my wits end. My mum recently re married this guy and I split my time between her and my dad's. He has 3 kids, eldest is 17 and youngest is 8. There is not one day, maybe not even a few hours that can go by without the 8 year old having screaming fits if she doesn't get her own way - she will actually make these ear piercing screams that resemble a newborn baby crying and be rude to my Mum telling her stuff like 'I hate you! I WANT MY MUMMY!!! I WANT MY MUMMY!!!!!' etc, she will also throw so many things, toys, ornaments and stuff that they make dents and holes in the walls, my stepdad usually tries to calm her down whenever this happens but it takes a lot of work. Even if we're in the supermarket or somewhere in public she will start screaming and crying for the smallest thing like someone not answering her right away about something, like she will go 'dad, daddy, daddy? DADDY?!!! DADDY!!!! ANSWER ME RIGHT NOW!!!!!' and start screaming her head off until her dad goes 'Hey! hey! Stop it! Stop screaming! What
do you want?.' The few hours/days in which she is pleasant is only when people do exactly as she says and give her stuff when she wants it. I'm currently spending more time at my dad's place because I'm revising for exams and honestly my youngest stepsister makes the atmosphere at my mum's place so tense and everyone walks on eggshells. Even when she talks its usually in a loud/shouting voice and she usually wants something or else she'll start screaming within 5 minutes if someone doesn't do/give her what she wants. Last Christmas was the first I spent with my mum, my new stepdad and his family. Youngest stepsister had a massive 3 hour tantrum that ruined the celebrations because she didn't get all the toys she wanted. Apparently she's been tested for ADHD and other disorders but she has nothing. My mum and stepdad are both worried because of her behaviour, she has been in trouble at school a lot with teachers as well apparently. And in 3 years she will start secondary school. My stepdad has commented that she was pretty much like this all the time because his ex wife always spoilt their children a lot and also that the divorce made her behaviour worse. Does anyone know if this is normal behaviour for an 8 year old or she's just a spoilt brat? I personally think it's the second option but it would be nice to get some insight.
Stepsister is 8 years old and has screaming tantrums like a toddler
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