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    So I fell for a girl, haven't talked for a while but need to ask her out before I never get the chance again. I plan on chatting for a few minutes to catch up, hopefully have a laugh and then I'm gonna ask her out. BECAUSE we haven't spoken in a while, should I make it seem planned out like "I've been meaning to ask you" or should I make it seem spontaneous like I'm just taking a chance right there right then? I don't know which one would work best. I know it's a small thing but I wanna get my approach right so I've got no regrets. Cheers!*Obviously I know I'm planning it out, just how do I make it appear to her?*

    I'd say thought-out, I'd be different depending on what she's like but having not spoken to her for a while it might fluster her abit and thought-out would be cute and maybe make it look like you haven't spoken for a while because you've been thinking it through

    It really doesn't matter that much, don't overthink it. Just be truthful and do whatever feels right at the time.
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