So I am in my first year of college and since being in college I only talk to 1 of my friends from high school, the only one who came to the same college as me, I talk to another one of my friends from high school but not that frequently as she goes to a different college. I feel like since we have come to college she is my only friend and I am dependent on her all the time and I really don't like it. I also feel like she has changed A LOT since starting college and that she is getting bored of me. She has made a few new friends and this one friend she has made seems to be her favourite, whenever she hangs around with her I feel she forgets about me and focuses on her, the other day she came up to us and got so excited and hugged her when she came over: Not only has she made new friends, she has also just got a new boyfriend. We were supposed to go out the other day and she cancelled in the morning and later that day met up with her boyfriend, I was really hurt as I felt she was putting me aside and made an excuse just to go out with him. I haven't really made any new friends that I feel close to, although I do talk to people in my lessons, I don't feel I am on the level of close friendship with anyone new that I have met. I would love to get even closer to some of the people I have met but it's just so hard and I don't know how to. I am making this post to see if there is any one else who is in my position, I hate feeling like I am the only one losing a friend. Most of all, I hate how I went from having a lot of close friends that I used to go out with to having only 1 close one as we have all seemed to drifted since starting college and not seeing eachother everyday. If there is anyone else who feels the way I do please let me know and if anyone has any tips they would be appreciated!
Getting irritated with my best friend
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